Diapers, diapers, childhood illnesses and sleepless nights are long gone. Behind the first grade, constant fears, elementary school. And here it began: “You don't understand anything in life”, “Don't meddle in my life”, “I myself know what I need”. Being a parent is hard, because it is a daily and thankless job. I would like your child to appreciate this very work, but you should not expect gratitude from him. Children, especially adolescents, have the whole world of themselves, so telling them that you are trying for them is useless. It is best to try further, and your work will be appreciated at its true worth in twenty years. But it normal. In the meantime, I would like to give some tips to help communicate with children.
Instructions
Step 1
Only calmness. Even if you have never yelled at children in your life, you still have moments when you want to throw out all your nervousness and anger. Control yourself in the presence of the child and give vent to screams and tears when he does not see or hear you. Make it clear to the child that you are an adult enough person with a healthy psyche.
Step 2
Don't let him be rude. Do not forgive a single rude word in your direction. Calmly explain to him that it is unacceptable to be rude to your parents, as you should respect your elders and restrain your emotions. In the end, the rules of good manners have not yet been canceled.
Step 3
Do not forget that you are. Take care not only of your child, but also of yourself. Improve yourself and talk about all the events that happened to you. Consult with your child, talk about what upsets and worries you. This is called emotional exchange.
Step 4
Perfect parenting. According to experts, education without reprimands, scandals, reproaches and suggestions consists in education by one's own example. As perfect as you yourself are, your upbringing will be perfect. No matter how trite it may sound, children are our continuation.
