We all know, of course, that porn is not real life. Because, really, when was the last time the guy who brought you pizza looked as hot as, say, Richard Armitage? But all these stereotypes aside, the people who work in the adult film industry do know a lot of different things about sex - this is, after all, their job. And some of the advice you get on the set of a porn movie may well come in handy in a regular bedroom - and your sex life will never be the same again!
Do your best to get ready for RPG
Don't stock up on costumes and accessories at cheap online retailers that offer you a French maid outfit with a 50 percent discount. Something more sophisticated and thoughtful will show that you are willing to put in the time and energy to play your part and prepare something special for your partner. Porn stars sometimes wear very realistic costumes in films. It's all play and pretense, of course, but I bet you'll get a lot more fun out of your sexy nurse costume if it's not a cheap polyester dress that itches and sweats all over your body.
Leave some clothing on you
Well, at least some part of it. So, the reason porn actresses don't take off their shoes during sex is because their legs look longer and slimmer, and leaning on high heels makes it easier to take some of the sex positions. Also, if it's an RPG and you're still dressed as characters, it spurs fantasy and desire. In general, take off your panties, but leave the belt and stockings - and do not forget to share your new experiences!
Masturbate during breaks
Did you know that shooting a 15-20 minute scene in a porn film takes no less, if not more, an hour? But that doesn't mean that actors actually have sex for that long, hour after hour. They are people too, and they also need to catch their breath, just like you. There are also breaks in the regular bedroom - are the kids waking up and need your attention, or are your partner suddenly starting to lose an erection right in the middle of sex. If this happens, don't let your sex drive go astray. Pornstars often masturbate between takes to keep themselves aroused, and as such, they are always ready to return to work right after a break. So, if your partner needs a break, don't grab your phone or magazine - try fondling yourself and see what happens.
Alternate foreplay and main process
Sex doesn't have to be a linear process, says our porn star. We got excited, performed a couple of dozen frictions, finished, caught our breath - this, guys, is boring, sooner or later you will even stop undressing for this. Go from foreplay to sex and vice versa, from sexual intercourse to oral sex. Yes, it keeps orgasm from coming, so you never know when the climax will come or how overwhelming it will be! Just remember, if you use condoms, that for every new penetration or oral sex, you need a new "that thing."
Dirty talk
I’m not saying that you need to shout so loudly that neighbors are alarmed and call the police - most women are unlikely to moan so intensely during sex. No, it's about whispering in your partner's ear what you are going to do with him or want to do with you. And it really turns on! You probably know how to not only raise your partner's blood pressure with such dirty talk, but also encourage him to try something new or give you unexpected pleasure. Plus, everyone loves good compliments - tell him exactly how you feel about him inside you.
Pay attention to your needs
No, even so - pay attention to YOUR needs. Our porn star said that she gets more orgasms during soft erotic scenes, and not in harder porn, because in softcore she has more opportunities to focus on herself, on her desires and needs. So take a closer look at yourself and find out which positions or situations work best for you, give you the most pleasure. Forget about everything else and focus not on your partner, not on how you look, and certainly not on the fact that it is high time to update the ceiling, but on yourself and only on yourself, on your pleasure, on what how you feel and feel. I am sure there are many surprises in store for you!
