Ignorance of the intricacies of BDSM culture causes a person to fear using this type of sex to diversify his intimate life. People don't even know that it is easy to fit into this culture. It is enough to analyze your sexual preferences.
BDSM is a sex game based on the dominance of one partner and the complete submission of the other. It originated in ancient times among the Romans, in the first millennium it was appreciated by the Etruscans, later it was sung in the works of the Marquis de Sade.
If you carefully read the "Kamasutra", it turns out that the ideas of BDSM were supported by its authors. In addition to various poses, it describes four types of blow, the use of which will be appropriate during lovemaking.
Exciting pain can be inflicted in a variety of ways, from light slaps to dripping hot wax onto the body and lashing. If, during intercourse, a partner wants to be pulled by her hair, causing a little pain, this indicates a desire to enter into a "thematic" relationship.
Why is BDSM enjoyable?
One part of the brain is responsible for pain and sexual pleasure. The chances of being plunged headlong into the abyss of sado-maso are from a person from birth. They increase if you connect psychological perception. A few slaps on soft spots during sex give rise to the subconscious mind that pleasure is inseparable from pain.
Devices for BDSM
Such items include flogging and tying devices. These are handcuffs, retainers, belts and gags. Collars, masks and whips are also paraphernalia for such sex games. The materials for the production of such products are mainly metal, latex and leather.
What should be considered when deciding on this type of intimate relationship?
The key aspect is a prerequisite that everything should bring pleasure to both partners and be done only by mutual consent. It is important to understand that domestic assault and street rape have nothing to do with BDSM culture.
In these sex games, the dominant partner is always responsible for the psychological and physical safety of the subordinate. Safety, voluntariness and reasonable boundaries are the components that distinguish the professional sado-masochist from the “amateur”.
Before entering into an intimate relationship, it is better for a couple to stipulate everything that can be done in relation to each other. It is also necessary to discuss the preferred paraphernalia, up to the type of handcuffs and whips. You should also agree on the use of a special stop word, with the help of which the subordinate partner can warn the dominant one that the game must be immediately interrupted or its script must be changed.