Often, wives, in response to their insignificant request to do some male housework, which they are unable to do, hear this hateful word "later." Then a new request appears and another "later". And so over time, requests accumulate, expectations grow, but are not justified, irritation and discontent grow, both from the wife and the husband. In turn, the wife considers it necessary and necessary to repeatedly remind her husband that he has not yet done what he promised. And as a result, quarrels and scandals appear. And the expression "wife nagging" has become commonplace for a long time.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not expect him to immediately run to fulfill your request. We are all human, we are all a little lazy. Try to put yourself in your husband's shoes. Just imagine, if you were sharply asked to do something, you would most likely think how it would fit into your plans. Even if the plans were just to lie on the couch and eat a cake.
Step 2
When making your request, explain the specific reason why the husband should do this. And the best thing is to make it clear to the husband that he also needs this to be done. For example: "Darling, here you fix my laptop, and I don't have to borrow your computer."
Step 3
You can, in response to the execution of the request, promise something to your husband that might interest him. But, of course, in this case it is imperative to fulfill what was promised, otherwise the next time it will be much more difficult to ask him to do something.
Step 4
Before you ask your husband to do something, let alone remind you of what you have already asked, you need to find the right moment. If you bother your husband when he comes home from work in a bad mood, when he is unwell (and it is known that sick people are more irritable), then you not only will not get what you ask for, but you also run the risk of "falling under a hot hand." …
Step 5
Patience is very important. Do not put pressure on your husband. If the fulfillment of the desired cannot be greatly postponed, but it is necessary to do the faster the better, then all this should be explained to the husband, but calmly, while thinking in advance how to say everything without reproach and accusations.
