Formal marriage significantly changes the relationship between partners. This is due to the fact that the mental states of men and women are changing. As a rule, the male psyche becomes more vulnerable, and the female one becomes more stable.
According to psychologists, the reason lies in a different worldview and the divergence of reasons why a person enters into a marriage. A woman gets married to gain protection and confidence in the future, while a man, as a rule, is afraid of losing his freedom and independence.
The owners of the healthiest psyche are those who, long after marriage, managed to maintain a tender and kind relationship. Others, on the other hand, are constantly looking for flaws in each other. Such a relationship will not lead to anything good and will most likely fall apart in the near future.
There are three psychological types of human character. The first type is "silent" who do not enter into conflict situations, trying to evade responsibility. The second type - "disputants", are the instigators of scandals, feed on the energy of a partner. The third type - "consultants", they, after listening and thinking, make the best decision for both partners in any situation.
To maintain normal relations after the wedding, it is recommended to choose a partner of a similar psychological type, which will allow you to respond in the same way to situations that arise. It is quite difficult for different types to find a compromise solution, which often leads to the breakdown of the family.
Even if the relationship after the wedding is significantly different from the desired or previous actions of the partner, do not despair and make hasty decisions. It is necessary to analyze the situation, learn to understand and hear a loved one, try to adjust without prejudice to both. Of course, both spouses should adhere to this policy, which will lead to a positive result and the establishment of family relations. The main secret of a happy family is mutual understanding and mutual respect for each other.
