Many girls are looking forward to their wedding. Pronouncing the secret words of consent, they dream of one thing - to live a long and happy life with their chosen one. What does a woman expect from family life? The beginning of a new, unknown, new adventures, new achievements …
Instructions
Step 1
Men, caring for lovely ladies, conquer their souls, feelings, thoughts, achieve affection for themselves. Girls, falling in love with them, stop eating and sleeping. Then the wedding, and then everyone has their own scenario: someone's women's expectations are justified, and someone's are crumbling with terrible force. Having married, women seem to acquire exactly what they always wanted - a sense of security, confidence in the future, a strong shoulder to lean on. After marriage, many men believe that now there is nothing to achieve. The courtship ends, the attitude from a more reverent one changes to a familiar one, life turns into gray everyday life.
Not every man understands that if after the wedding the courtship continues, he will already open his wife from a new side, acquaintance with her will continue, turning at the same time into a new adventure. So what does a woman expect from family life?
Step 2
Communication
Women by nature are very fond of communicating, they just need it. Having married, the fairer sex sees in her husband not only a lover, but also a friend, an interlocutor, whom she can entrust secrets, dreams, or simply hear the opinion of a loved one, get advice. She views family life as a communication that will last a lifetime. Unfortunately, men, on the contrary, very often like to be silent. They often run away from their wife's conversations, plunging into a soft sofa watching their favorite show, or they urgently need to visit the garage, or the most common option - they are sucked in by the Internet. What do women get? Dissatisfaction in communication, increased tension. Whatever the circumstances surrounding us, in a happy family, each of the spouses must learn to take into account the interests and needs of the other.
Step 3
Feelings of compassion
Another innate feeling that women have is compassion. They feel very sorry for those who need help, they feel sorry for the animals, they feel sorry for the abandoned children. And this all very easily spoils their mood. As a result, they themselves turn into helpless, in such a situation women really need compassion. They need so little - a hug from their beloved husband and three cherished words - "I love you."
Many men generally believe that all this is nonsense, and there is nothing to dissolve snot. In addition, most men tend to be in cases where a woman does not succeed, instead of compassion, on the contrary, add that she herself is to blame.
Step 4
Endless celebration of life
There are probably few girls who do not like flowers, gifts, surprises. Having got married, there is an illusion that there will only be more of these romantic little things, and not only on holidays, but simply as a sign of great love. And by the way, it doesn't have to be something material, isn't it romantic just to take your beloved by the hand or hug the waist when you go somewhere together. The truth of life is that usually after marriage, women rarely receive flowers, gifts and surprises. Sometimes even the holidays go unnoticed. And if you want romance, maybe something will work out if you hint about it to your husband for a long time and persistently.
Step 5
Feelings of affection
Women really need her, this gives them a sense of security, evidence of her husband's loyalty and love. The feeling of security, exactly the feeling that a woman needs, the feeling "like behind a stone wall."
Step 6
Attention
How offensive and hard it is when a woman waited for her beloved husband all day from work, cooked goodies, and when he came home, he sat down at the computer, and as if he didn’t notice her existence at all, but took the prepared dinner for granted. But women sometimes need so little - just sit next to me, take the handle, look into the eyes and just ask, How was your day.
Step 7
Passion
Many women always rejoice in moments of intimacy and enjoy it. But if in a day they do not get at least a little communication, compassion, romance and affection, then passion can be forgotten. And if the man had time, then when evening comes, the wife simply will not be able not to respond to his passion.
