Philosophers, art people and other soul healers have tried for centuries to find a clue to the nature of male infidelity. Why is a man who married for love and was confident in his loyalty cheating on his wife? How can you assess the sudden silence of feelings and heart? What provokes a husband's betrayal: temptation, boredom, or the eternal search for the ideal? You can formulate many more questions, in each case there is a reason.
Some - "just a little", others - "eyes run up," still others - by changing, prove their own worthiness, the fourth - do not consider it necessary to remain silent in response to obvious sympathies in their address, the fifth is attracted by the element of risk, the illusion of romance, which they are so lacking in everyday life, sixth - an elementary desire to have fun. It is impossible to measure everyone by a single yardstick, and there are no clear psychological indicators on this score, they say, "look carefully, it looks like it will be wrong." However, sometimes, basic knowledge of psychology makes it possible to outline one or another type of men who will cheat on their wives.
First on the list "What Men Cheat?" - "Don Juan". It is important for him to make his own as many women as possible. This is his "life program": to get acquainted, interest, arrange, attract, win and fall in love. There is no need to count on further relations with such a man, because this very “further” is simply absent in his plans. He either returns to his wife, or goes hunting for new beauties. Don Juan is not evil, he is just a heartthrob. This is such a role and, in his opinion, no other development of relations was offered to you. In everyday life, this type of men, although they are distinguished by diligence, rarely achieves recognition: the all-consuming passion for new "heights" in matters of the heart interferes too much. “My only concern was to achieve absolute happiness, of course, in relationships with women. The search turned out to be both lengthy and useless, but I'm still waiting … ".
The second type of men who cheat on their wives is the "Womanizer". It would seem, well, what an insulting epithet, but smug representatives of this breed consider it almost a compliment. They are also hunters, but, unlike the Don Juans, they are not idealists. In addition, they have more understandable motives, behind which, as a rule, nothing high is found. Lovelaces, in search of pleasure, forget not only about their wife or girlfriend, but also about various vital things, for example, about health. They themselves have a different opinion: “Womanizer? - that means I love women, I understand what exactly they need, I know how to look after so that both would like it …"
More sophisticated than the "Don Juan" and "Womanizer", the "Ladies' Saints" cheat on their wives. They simply cannot live without female society. Their legitimate darlings have a hard time, from time to time watching their husbands break into smiles, seeing an interesting "little thing" in a tight-fitting dress and stiletto heels. They rush to give her a coat (open the door, bring a lighter), she gives her a radiant smile in return, and her husband realizes that only her presence helps to avoid a promising acquaintance. Who knows how many such situations were in the past (will be in the future) … But some time ago, the wife herself fell for the same bait. How artistic her man was, how ingenious in jokes and compliments! Yes, it is not difficult for similar "Ladies' Saints" to attract interest to themselves, and then, as soon as there is a desire, start reaping its sweet fruits. “I am married to a young attractive girl, but that does not mean that I am indifferent to everyone else. I have no task to seduce them, I just try to be attentive …"
But most often they cheat on their wives … men who simply consider themselves beautiful ("Narcissists"). And not at all because it is easier for them to get to know each other or to have a relationship with a woman they like. Unlike "Ladies' Saints", "Narcissists" are more important to see adoration, probably - as another recognition of their own irresistibility. And for the sake of this adoration, they go all out. Many women's hearts began to flutter from a gaze with a "cunning" or a Hollywood smile, forcing their owners to lose their heads and completely ignore the other side of the coin, namely the fact that for the narcissist there is only one incredibly attractive person - himself. "My friend has long come to terms with my betrayal, she learned to accept my popularity with the ladies, and understands how difficult it is for me sometimes to resist their onslaught …"
Closes the list of male types who cheat on their wives, "Autumn Casanova". And this is the most difficult situation for the female psyche - "gray hair in the beard, devil in the rib." A good family man, hitherto not noticed in discrediting relationships, becomes grumpy, picky and … it turns out - unfaithful! "Why?" and "for what?" confused in the head of the legal spouse, while the disgusting "with whom?" does not prevail over all other question marks. "With whom?" - Yes, with a girl who is twenty years younger than him … Alas, but such unplanned betrayals of "gray-haired lions" happen quite often. “As soon as I saw her, I immediately realized that everything might still be okay. Sweetheart, gentle, graceful - with such anyone will feel like a superman …"
