Everyone has had their hearts broken at least once in their lives. It is scary to imagine what kind of suffering a soul can experience. You were tormented by insomnia, you could not eat, endless rivers of tears flowed from your eyes. But time heals. And a wonderful person appeared on your way. In this situation, you only care about one question: "How to build a new relationship?"
Instructions
Step 1
You need to be ready for a new relationship. Let go of the evil past and forget the grievances. After all, if your soul is not cleansed, you will unconsciously project past resentments into new relationships. Better to be alone for a while, deal with your emotions and learn useful lessons from your bitter experience. Of course, it's not easy to step over lies and betrayal and start trusting people again, but it's still worth a try. No matter how strong the pain of loss, endless loneliness will undoubtedly cause you incomparably great pain.
Step 2
If the question: "What did I do wrong?" you find the answers, then try to avoid such mistakes in a new relationship. Remember, the breakup is always to blame for both. Find out what caused the breakup on your part. Perhaps it was over-concern, jealousy, or endless reproaches. If you find it difficult to deal with this situation on your own, you can contact a psychologist.
Step 3
Love is made up of little things. Take care of your lover: make him a cup of coffee so that he does not be late for work, put a couple of sandwiches in his backpack if you know that he does not have time for lunch. Men really do not like when they are trying to change them, but what if some trifle in his behavior does not suit you? Use your natural cunning. Gradually try to influence your partner, eliminating his bad habit, so that he thinks that this is his decision. By and large, all men need only three things to create ideal ones: sex, loyalty and support. Use this formula, please him, surprise him, and he will never leave you.
Step 4
It is important to understand that love does not always bring happiness. Love is hard work, it is a struggle for happiness. And tears and quarrels are present in all respects, but only those couples who are really fighting for their relationship pass through all these obstacles. Therefore, if he is really dear to you, please be patient and go ahead.