Friends will always support you in difficult life moments. They will cheer you up when it seems that everything is lost, and they will rejoice with you when your life presents another pleasant surprise. To keep your friends from leaving you, you need to constantly nourish your relationship with them.
Instructions
Step 1
Take the first step towards. There is no point in walking with your head down and grunting, because everyone has forgotten about you. Perhaps the problem is that you are not taking the initiative. Try to analyze your relationship with friends: who calls first, who organizes meetings? Don't wait to be asked to go out or chat; this may not be the case. The less often you are proactive, the more likely your relationship with friends is to deteriorate.
Step 2
Arrange traditional appointments. For example, in your student years, you had a noisy and cheerful company, and now it has almost disintegrated. Of course, a merry fellow and a joker who changed his fashionable outfit for a solid suit will no longer amuse everyone as well. But you can still set a traditional date on which you will meet. For example, it could be the last Saturday of every month or the last day of a season. It all depends on your desires and capabilities.
Step 3
Become friends with families. The most common reason friends drift apart is because each of them has a new life. Career, marriage, children - all this, of course, changes the attitude towards oneself, and towards one's time, and towards friends. Call a friend or friend and invite them out with your family. At the next meeting, there will be a reason for discussion. After a while, you will forget how you can spend your free days in a different way.
Step 4
Consider the financial situation of your friends. You should not invite your friends to a fancy and expensive restaurant if you know that they have some difficulties with money. This can upset them, cause unpleasant emotions. They will begin to meet with you less and less often, and then they will completely disappear from your life.
Step 5
Show your friends that you really need them. Have a heart-to-heart talk with your best friend / girlfriend, tell us how you miss your old friendship. Demonstrate your willingness to communicate warmly and sincerely.
