By becoming a family, a couple receives not only a spouse, but all his connections. This can include parents, children from a former marriage, and friendships. A man will appreciate it if you can befriend his friends. Therefore, it is worth finding ways to join the company and make a good impression.
Don't be possessive. The biggest mistake women make is to forbid a husband to see his friends, call him every half hour, or not let him go alone. Such pressure will not only make a man feel uncomfortable, but also his friends. Such control will show you jealous, and your spouse - henpecked.
Sign in to their company
Spend more time with them. It's difficult to mend relationships with your husband's friends if you don't see each other at all. If they don't invite you to their gatherings, offer to meet in pairs and walk together. Choose your pastime, taking into account the interests of the whole company: a restaurant, a bar, barbecues in nature or a trip to the mountains with tents. It is best to arrange a dinner at home, where you will prepare delicious meals on your own and show yourself as a hospitable hostess.
Find common interests or research topics that interest them. If you find it difficult to decide on your own, ask your spouse for help. He knows both you and his friends well, and will probably tell you what to talk about. As a last resort, you can talk about popular topics - movies, books, sports or the latest world news.
Find a common language with the girls or wives of his friends. When the company is going in pairs, you need to make friends with the female part of the team. Then you will receive support, you will not feel left out in meetings. If women like you, then their halves will also treat you well.
Men love to help women, so you can take advantage of this weakness. Ask for help in a simple matter. For example, choosing a gift for your spouse or throwing a surprise party. As long as you do a joint business, you can become close and make friends with your husband's friends.
Show your best side
Don't get out of the company. It often happens that, having gone with her husband's friends, a girl demands too much and is capricious, does not support jokes, argues a lot on unimportant issues, or otherwise opposes herself to the company. Few people like such wayward girls, because everyone is waiting for a simple and easy communication.
Joke more. Men love girls with a sense of humor, so by inserting funny jokes in place, you will easily enter any company. But don't joke about your boyfriend or those present, especially at first. Choose neutral jokes or share a couple of funny stories from your life. But unless you have a good sense of humor, this method is not recommended. A failed attempt can seriously damage your reputation.
