Where the babies come from? Many parents are anxiously awaiting the day when this question will sound. It is better to be prepared in advance for this. We calmly and confidently share with little vital information.
Instructions
Step 1
If this heartbreaking question caught you by surprise, do not refuse the child, reprimanding that he has not yet matured to such reasoning. Better to postpone the conversation for a while. Consider how best to present this topic. Read the relevant literature, pick up special publications for children, in which the information is selected in accordance with the age of the child.
Step 2
Don't scold your baby. It is absolutely natural to be interested in such a topic. The main thing is that he came to you for an answer, thus, the child shows trust in his parents. If a child is rudely refused, he will think that he has asked about something forbidden and shameful and subsequently will not be able to freely communicate about sex, which will negatively affect his later life.
Step 3
You should not give your child an extensive lecture on the topic of procreation, with all the details. The information must be dosed, giving the baby a little, in simple terms, understandable for his age. In the future, this topic will come up more than once and you will gradually fill in the gaps.
Step 4
It is correct when a parent of the same sex initiates a child in this topic. He will feel more comfortable. When children become aware of their gender, girls associate themselves with their mother, boys with their father. The child will mature and will be able to calmly and confidently address more serious issues to the appropriate parent.
Step 5
If the child is reluctant to talk about such topics, he may feel awkward and not know how to start a conversation. Try to gently push him into it yourself.
Step 6
Sexual abuse. A very important topic that should not be avoided. Of course, you should not go into vivid details and scare the child, it is enough to explain that you cannot communicate with strangers, they can be dangerous. He must understand that no one will ever allow anyone to touch his body, it belongs only to him, and if such attempts were made by adults, the baby should not be afraid to tell you.
