Children can feel hurt and uncomfortable around strong, all-knowing adults. To help your child feel like a complete family member and understand their own worth, show that you respect their personality.
Instructions
Step 1
Keep your promises to your child. Otherwise, children feel that their parents are neglecting them, and at the right time they are able to simply dismiss their words. To avoid disappointments in the future, don't make promises that you're not 100 percent sure about, or make reservations for bad weather, sickness, and unforeseen circumstances.
Step 2
Be honest with your child. You should not lie to him or lie to someone else in the presence of your son or daughter. Believe me, children are good at feeling fake, and of course, they are not happy about the moments when their parents are able to easily deceive them.
Step 3
Believe in the child, admire his talents, support his initiatives. There is no need to belittle the baby and respond to his enthusiasm and dreams with skepticism and condescension.
Step 4
Leave the habit of lecturing your child. This is especially true for sons. They are already little men and hate long and tedious lectures. It is enough just to point out the error, suggest how to fix it and prevent it in the future. There is no need to read morality.
Step 5
Do not laugh at the child, his mistakes and mistakes. It happens that the words of the baby seem very funny to the parents, they begin to laugh and call their grandmothers to convey what happened. And the child is not at all funny, he was not joking and did not try to make mom and dad laugh. In this case, it may seem to the baby that he is not understood and respected, that something is wrong with him.
Step 6
Be sure to answer the child's questions. Even if he asks the same thing for the hundredth time, don't ignore him. You don't do this to your friends, coworkers, bosses, or clients. And the child also needs to be paid tribute.
Step 7
Do not negate the child's fears or deny their feelings. For example, a kid is upset that his toy is broken. He cries, and mom says that there is absolutely no reason for crying and there is nothing to be so upset about nonsense. That is, it underestimates the child's values and denies his emotions. It's the same with fears. Parents sometimes do not quite correctly try to rid their children of them. You need to accept all the emotions of the child. He has a right to them, and his feelings are worthy of attention and respect.
