Children expect love from us. Love that protects, love that forgives and accepts you by anyone. But often, parents hold back their emotions, fearing that expressing their feelings will make them more vulnerable, that their children will take advantage of this weakness and organize holidays of disobedience. But time flies so fast, soon the children will grow up and there will be no one to express their love. Don't waste precious days, present your unconditional love to your child today.
Instructions
Step 1
Parents often don't know how to express their love. And the child receives a storm of emotions only if he is guilty. Even so, all parental anger should be directed at the child for good purposes. No need to lecture and shout. All words should be filled with meaning that your parents love you very much and worry about you. At this point, you should look at the child at eye level, squatting down if necessary. Through the look, you can convey the whole gamut of emotions, but in our case, you only need to convey your love. After all, a look is one of the very first ways to show your child your love.
Step 2
Do an experiment. Count how many times a day you touch the child with affection, and not out of necessity (dressing, bathing), how many times you hug and kiss. Often, adults are embarrassed to express their feelings through physical contact, especially with an adult child. Pediatricians have long proven that for the normal physical and mental development of a baby, he needs daily hugs and caresses from his parents. Every year the child grows up, we show less and less such affection. Physical contact has a beneficial effect on children, and soothes those who are naughty. If you find it difficult to show these feelings, start with a daily kiss goodnight.
Step 3
Children expect our attention, and in return they receive a TV, computer and PSP. Parents think that the benefits of civilization are a great way to show love to a child and find something to do. And they are actually waiting for our personal attention, and this does not require a lot of money and time. Get a family hobby, skiing on the weekend, for example. Such outings will give the child the opportunity to feel that his parents belong to him and that he is the center of the universe today. There is nothing wrong with that. After all, it is parental love and support that makes us successful and strong already in adulthood.
