Parents, instilling rules of conduct in their children from an early age, wonder why their methods do not always work. Everything seems simple: say "thank you", "hello", "goodbye". But, in practice, this is far from the case. The child is lost and cannot utter a single word.
Shyness
It is important not only to teach the child the rules of behavior, but also to teach, not to be ashamed of people. It is this factor that prevents children from uttering such long-awaited words. Various factors play a role here. How sociable the child is, whether he has friends. Having learned the rhyme, the child told you about it with pleasure twenty times at home. In public, he is shy. Don't be angry with him, support him. Feeling support, the child himself will cope with the excitement and will volunteer to show his talent. But, for this he needs to get used to a stranger or environment. For a child, this is a big step in development. He is trying to overcome fear, to do the right thing.
Family courtesy
In a family where everyone speaks at home politely to each other, the child also inherits this pattern of behavior. He observes how family members relate to each other. When the father hands his mother's coat and says "thank you" for the cooked dinner, it becomes a clear example of behavior for the child, rather than reading books on this topic, or watching educational cartoons. Respect for elders will also instill useful qualities in the child. Having matured, he will not lose them, but, on the contrary, will increase.
Let it get dirty
Where to ignore is in the playground. Here, let your kid get creative. Many mothers are overly careful about the appearance of their children, not allowing them to get dirty and enjoy the game to the fullest. When going to the playground, do not wear new or light-colored clothing on your child. Take a change of clothes with you in case your baby gets very dirty. Let your child feel like a creator. Digging in the sand, sculpting mud pies, splashing in puddles are the most fun and interesting activities for children learning about the world. Playing according to the plan conceived by nature, the child develops in the right direction. Don't bother him. Let your baby play the way he can. And do not scold for another stain of dirt. The kid will be grateful to you. This means that you will have a trusting relationship. And manners are not needed here.
