When parents find out that they will have a boy, they immediately determine for themselves on a subconscious level how they will love, cherish and protect him from all difficulties. And at that moment when mom and dad, grandmothers, aunts, grandfathers take the baby in their arms for the first time, love covers them with their heads. But what is the right way to raise a boy so that he later grows up as a real man?
Instructions
Step 1
Do not protect the child unnecessarily. Eliminate excessive (it is worth emphasizing - exactly excessive) "lisp", care, love. Indulging in whims, permissiveness and omnipresent parental love can only harm the child. A boy should grow up as an independent, proactive and strong personality, capable of standing up for himself and his family.
Step 2
Train your child to work. Give the boy from infancy at least some homework. Let the baby help dad put together a new dresser bought or rush to help mom when she vacuums or sweeps the floor. The kid can carry his own backpacks and bags. The child should not be afraid of work, because it is the boys, as adults, who are obliged to become the breadwinners of the family.
Step 3
Do not be too hard on your child; you need to eliminate excessive severity and regular tugging. The constant desire of the mother to subordinate the child to her desires and moral principles will lead to the fact that he will grow up weak-willed, spineless and dependent. Excessive strictness of the parents will also not lead to anything good, the child will try to break out of control by any means.
Step 4
Do not restrict your baby in his activity. Boys are very energetic and active by nature. They strive to study the surrounding entire space. If you limit them in this endeavor, children will grow up closed, unable to adapt to any life circumstances.
Step 5
Demonstrate a personal example of parents in everything that concerns life in society - communication, respect for elders, relations between a man and his soul mate. Only positive examples in each of the above parameters will become a guideline for the boy in his future life. It is for this reason that the mother of the baby should be the embodiment of the ideal of a woman, and the father should be a hero who can be imitated.
