In the future, every mother who has a young son wants to raise in him a person who will become a man in every sense of the word. She understands perfectly well that becoming a mother-in-law, she does not want to look in the eyes of her daughter-in-law, the very mother who spoiled her child. After all, character and its quality are formed precisely in infancy.
From an early age, a mother needs to address her child as a male. You shouldn't call the boy a kid or "beads", but rather focus his attention on such appeals as my protector, son or hero. And it is better if the people around will also call the boy.
There is no need to show your strength and weight in front of your son, because a woman for him, first of all, should be a woman. His love, tenderness and affection can be shown to him in a different way - by hugging and kissing, thereby he will learn to sympathize with his mother, appreciate and respect her. In the future, this will help him in communication with the opposite sex. In this matter, the most important thing is not to go overboard and not forget about parental authority. You should not suppress his initiative, while giving the opportunity to learn from your mistakes. The child must self-actualize.
From childhood, the baby is obliged to understand what are the differences between male and female occupations. For this, toys in the house should be exclusively for the boy. Closer to school, your son can already be introduced with his dad, to do men's housework. A six-year-old boy can already hammer in a nail, make something or fix something with the help of an adult.
In order for a young man to see an example to follow, he should often be left in the male company. For example, a son can go fishing or hunting with his dad, watch football or repair a car in the garage. It already depends on the preferences of your child. The main thing is that he shows interest in the lesson.
And one more nuance in raising a son - a boy should never hear that his father is bad, even if the parents are divorced.
Following these simple rules, you can bring up a real man in your child, the main thing is to love, appreciate and support him in everything.
