It's good if you have a complete family or are divorced, but the father is actively involved in raising his son. Unfortunately, this is not always the case. If the father does not take any part in the upbringing of the son, then the whole responsibility lies with the mother.
Encourage your son to communicate with male relatives, with his friends and acquaintances. Talk to your son in an adult, respectful way, remembering that he is a future man. Listen carefully to him and, if possible, answer all his questions about how the stronger sex should behave.
Do not lisp with him or overly patronize. If your son comes from the street with scratches, broken knees and other minor injuries, do not scold him, but calmly treat the wounds, saying that "he will heal before the wedding." Even from preschool age, you can tell your son about your affairs and problems. Teach your child to self-service, do not swear if he tries to help you with the housework, even if he accidentally breaks or breaks something.
When the son grows up, accustom him to small household chores that will be within his power. If a child watches with enthusiasm how adult men are repairing something or doing other male work, do not send him away. Instead, ask the men to tell him what they are doing and how. The child can take an all possible part: hold something, give it, bring it.
From early childhood, identify the child's inclinations, develop, but do not force him to study without his desire. It happens that the child changes several circles or sections before choosing an activity to his liking. But if he does something seriously, teach him to achieve results with work, patience and perseverance.
Instill in your son the ability to manage himself, to do what he does not want, but must, and not do what he wants, but is harmful. Allow to bring friends into the house, talk to them yourself: you should know what kind of friends your son has.
Teach your son from an early age to respect women, take care of them: for example, give a hand when leaving a transport or help carry a heavy bag. Stop the manifestation of arrogance and boorish attitude towards people. Learn to be patient and condescending to the shortcomings of others.
