Often women complain that there are no real men nearby. In this case, you can sympathize with them. But if you look at this situation from the other side, then we ourselves, women who have sons, are raising these men. So how do you raise a real man to be proud of him in the future?
Instructions
Step 1
The upbringing of a man should be dealt with by the father. And even from his birth. Since upbringing is, first of all, imitation, copying of the behavior of parents. The father's words will mean little to the child if they are at odds with his actions. Therefore, girls should keep in mind that most likely their future son will be a lot like dad.
Step 2
A man must be strong, that is, he must make decisions, and be able to take responsibility for these decisions. Now parents should think about whether they give their little son the opportunity to independently make decisions and be responsible for them?
Step 3
Freedom begins with limiting yourself and your desires. This point, again, is more for dads - instill in your son the scheme from childhood: "All the best to mom, sister, grandmother, because they are girls. Then - to a cat, a dog, a hamster - because they are helpless and dependent on us. And, in last of all, you and me - because we are men."
Step 4
Psychologists say that a child is aware of himself as a person from the age of three. It is from this age that you need to start telling the child that he is a man. That a real man has the obligatory word "Must". A man owes a lot. To be able to forgive, endure, overcome oneself, be able to be affectionate, be rude when necessary, be able to make mistakes and accept their mistakes, be able to be responsible for their words and actions, i.e. be able to be different.
Step 5
Even a small child should be treated like an adult. And this does not mean at all that you do not need to love him, play with him, forgive his minor mistakes, smile at him.
Step 6
The child can be wrong. After all, he is just beginning to explore the world. In this, men are very similar to children, they are constantly expanding the boundaries of the existing world. A man should be active, curious, because he is the engine of the world. Therefore, you do not need to punish your son for mistakes, you need to teach him to accept his mistakes, and correct them on his own.
