Parents are the first and most important teachers in the life of their children; they have a huge responsibility for upbringing on their shoulders. And the point is not only to ensure a reliable future for the child: to give him the opportunity to get an education and create comfortable living conditions. The main task of parents is to help children grow up to be decent people and choose the right path in life.
Instructions
Step 1
The main rule in the process of raising a child is to be a worthy role model. Children are a mirror of the family in which they grow up. When a warm and friendly atmosphere reigns in the house, the spouses sincerely love and respect each other, then their children, as a rule, grow up kind and emotionally stable. The child feels your relationship with each other and absorbs them, later they will form the basis of his own model of behavior in the family.
Step 2
Be attentive to your children, always take their experiences and feelings seriously. After all, it is important for them to always see a friend and mentor in your face, who will come to the rescue at any time and give the necessary advice. A child will grow confident in himself and it is easier to overcome all life obstacles if he knows that his parents support him, and their love will remain unchanged no matter what.
Step 3
Do not go too far with the punishment of the child, because children do not invest malicious intent in their actions, they are just beginning to live and, naturally, make mistakes. Show patience, try to intelligibly, in a calm voice, explain what he was wrong about, so you will help the child realize his wrongdoing. Do not scold children for the slightest disobedience, much less resort to corporal punishment. This humiliates the child, suppresses his will, engenders in him the seeds of anger and aggression.
Step 4
Always pay attention to and praise your child's good deeds. Celebrate what he does. Rejoice in the children's success and believe in them sincerely. The child should know that if you try and make efforts, you can achieve the desired result. This will allow him to form the correct mindset for achieving all future goals.
Step 5
Introduce your child to work from an early age. Children grow up lazy and lacking in initiative if their parents encourage all their whims and do everything for them. But it’s so great to help adults, the child feels needed and useful. This has a beneficial effect on his psyche and forms the correct idea of the world: to get something, you need to make an effort.
Step 6
Teach children to empathize, not to be indifferent to other people's sorrows and problems, to help those who need it. It's great when there is a pet in the house that needs to be taken care of, and the child takes an active part in this. A favorite toy is also suitable for this purpose. Arrange various mini-performances with your child, playing out all sorts of situations when he can help solve the problem of a particular character or sympathize with him. A very important task for parents is to teach children to give good to others, then they will grow up to be empathetic and responsive.
Step 7
Never compare your child with others, do not say that he does something worse than others. Also, you cannot call children stupid, incapable, mediocre, thus you generate in them complexes and self-doubt, which will prevent them from leading an active and fulfilling life. It is useful to compare the child with himself some time ago: earlier he did not succeed in something, but thanks to his persistent diligence and work, the desired result was achieved.
Step 8
Teach children to love and appreciate the beauty of the world around them. Draw his gaze to various manifestations of nature: blue sky, blossoming flower, lush green grass, leaf fall, bright colors of every season. This will contribute to the development of artistic taste, sensitivity, attention to detail and the environment.
