A real woman - elegant and strict, but at the same time responsive and open - many mothers dream of seeing an adult daughter like that. And the foundations of correct upbringing are laid in childhood.
A favorable environment in the family is the key to proper upbringing
It is foolish to expect that in conditions of constant scandals, alienation and mutual disrespect of family members, a harmoniously developed girl can grow up - a future real woman. From early childhood, a child's perception of himself as a person is laid. And if adults, busy with their own squabbles, pay little attention to the baby, she develops an inferiority complex that will haunt her all her life. Therefore, no matter how difficult the situation in the family develops, try to give the girl as much time as possible. Draw princesses in lush dresses, palaces with good kings, animals that are friends with each other. So the child will not only receive a charge of positive emotions, but will understand that adults are interested in him, albeit a small one, but a person, a person.
Do not torment the child with overprotection, provide a choice from a very early age. Upbringing in most cases is a dialogue, and not a fiery speech of a parent.
Also, in early childhood, my mother's example is very important for my daughter. The girl copies how the closest person behaves. If the mother is calm, smiling, does not provoke scandals, looks after herself, dresses well, then the girl will try to behave well, to meet the high bar. She will never raise her voice if Mom doesn’t start screaming. She will not take away toys and get involved in a fight if adults treat her and each other with respect. The correct behavior of parents in childhood lays down the main character traits of the future real wife.
A real woman - self-care is laid down from childhood
A real woman may not be beautiful, but she will definitely be well-groomed. And the basics of daily self-care are also taught to girls at a very young age. And this applies not only to hygiene. And so it is clear that you need to brush your teeth in the morning and in the evening, and wash your hands - every time before eating, after using the toilet, and after a walk. This also applies to proper nutrition and harmonious physical development. You should not rely on nature, thanks to which all calories in children go to growth. Yes, up to twelve years old this will happen, but then the body will learn to create fat reserves. And it will be very difficult to change the diet of a girl who is accustomed to eating fatty fried chicken, potatoes, salads with mayonnaise in the first decade of her life. Therefore, from an early age, feed your child healthy food, limiting high-calorie, sugary and fatty foods. Then the girl will have the right taste, she will not have the desire to eat fast food and chips instead of a normal dinner.
Let the girl use makeup, just teach her how to do it correctly. Do not forbid her to scent and dress beautifully. Use your own example to show how to create a stylish, organic look.
Light daily gymnastics will be useful for both mom and daughter. It will allow you to keep your muscles in shape, spend extra calories, and raise the overall tone of the body. The habit of doing exercise every day, introduced into adulthood from childhood, not only has a beneficial effect on health, but also perfectly disciplines. And self-control is one of the main qualities of a real woman.
And, of course, in order for a real woman to grow out of a girl, she needs love. The sincere joy and admiration of relatives give the child self-confidence, which will only grow stronger every year, allowing him to set any goals and achieve them.
