Sociologists and psychologists curse the Russian traditions of raising men, in which there is no place for a father. Even married ladies sometimes take on all the responsibilities of raising their son. And single mothers do not even think about how to provide their child with at least a little bit of male upbringing. As a result, infantile and irresponsible men grow up, incapable of a full life in society.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't make your son a girlfriend. Your problems, women's affairs "talk" with your friends. Even if your son is emotionally close to you, do not teach him the feminine way of talking about problems. The male way of discussing problems is a brief analysis of the situation and making a decision, active actions based on the decision. The feminine way of discussing problems is endless lamentation without trying to seriously change something.
Step 2
Cut the umbilical cord in time. Some mothers compensate for the lack of male love at the expense of their son. He becomes a little boyfriend for her, who looks after her like an adult. It is necessary to accustom the boy to a gallant attitude, but do not overdo it. He should in time become an autonomous and independent person from his mother, with his own affairs and interests.
Step 3
Find your son a male social circle. It is not worth leaving the child completely without male influence. He can be enrolled in the sports section, help him establish contact with male relatives. The boy needs objects to be emulated among the representatives of his gender, so his desire for male companies should be encouraged in every possible way.
Step 4
Don't forget about your privacy. You shouldn't give your son all your free time. From the age of five, children strive to be independent, they do not need too much care and attention. It is better to find yourself a man who will share your tenderness and affection with your son. Among other things, a well-established personal life can help you avoid the temptation to establish an overly close emotional relationship with your son.
