A love triangle is not such a rare situation. If you are dating a married man, then she is also familiar to you. At the beginning of this connection, his words that only a sense of duty and children connect him with his wife were taken seriously by you. Now that time passes, and the promised changes in his marital status have not come, you begin to think about how to break this relationship.
Instructions
Step 1
Nobody likes to be disappointed - it means admitting your mistakes. But the main thing is not not to do them, but to be able to fix them. Time goes by, now the first wrinkles have appeared, and you are still neither a bride nor a wife. It's time to think about yourself and understand that you are waiting for his divorce in vain - if the man did not do it right away, under the influence of passion and impulse, then every year it will be more difficult for him to do this, and there is no longer any special desire. Most likely, everything suits him.
Step 2
You can continue the relationship if you still enjoy it. Just give up those commitments that you once made. Gradually free yourself from feelings of euphoria and love, try to be guided by cold calculation, stop hoping and, most importantly, believe. Understand that as long as you are willing to be deceived, you will be deceived.
Step 3
If you still firmly decided not to meet again, then do it right away. Throw away, as unnecessary, all those souvenirs, photographs and other trifles placed around the apartment and reminiscent of the past. Erase from the computer memory the images where you are together, and from the phone memory all its numbers. Say a firm no to your married man. It will be very difficult for a while, but this is your decision.
Step 4
Stop burying yourself alive. Find yourself some kind of hobby, preferably related to sports, traveling, communicating with interesting people: alpine skiing, diving, windsurfing, tourism. Leave the house more often - to parties, clubs. You will not have time for experiences and longing for old relationships and the opportunity for new acquaintances will appear.
Step 5
A change in lifestyle can have a beneficial effect and force you to reconsider your views, re-evaluate the relationship. It is possible that your former passionate love will already be in the past for you, you will realize that the relationship has outlived itself. There is no need to destroy anything - nothing is left of love.
Step 6
Look around when you return to reality. Perhaps all this time you did not notice those men who were next to you. Look at them with a new look, long-standing friendship can always grow into love. Open your heart and soul towards a new feeling, prepare yourself for the fact that it can begin at any moment.
Step 7
Take care of yourself, devote your free time to visiting beauty and spa salons, it always brings pleasure and benefit. Arrange shopping, meeting with friends, tourist trip. Fill your time to failure, and you yourself will not notice how a completely different life and, perhaps, other relationships will begin.
