What aspects of relationships do people value? Reliability, loyalty, respect, mutual understanding and much more. But there is one more important point - these are common interests. Sometimes the hobbies of two partners do not coincide, and there are several ways to solve this problem.
Get him interested in your hobby
If a guy categorically does not share your interests, maybe he just knows little about them. How can you not love roller skating if you have never tried it? Or hate the theater without having seen a single performance? Tell him more about your hobby. Try to find aspects of your hobby that are interesting for the guy. Or just invite him to try it once - perhaps he will like it and in the future he will be happy to keep you company.
Do not be too persistent in persuasion - this will further ruin the situation.
Make a compromise
Consider if you are being overly selfish in your relationship. It is quite possible that you only demand - to make a company on a hike, to take you to a museum, to go to a concert together - but you do not offer anything in return. Your boyfriend is unlikely to like this state of affairs. Try to compromise. Agree to let him go fishing, promise to cook his favorite meal, or have a romantic evening with a sequel. A loved one will appreciate your concern and will gladly meet you halfway.
Find a common hobby
Are you interested in what the guy is fond of? Perhaps you are worth each other - he considers it a waste of time to travel through the cities of Russia, and you absolutely do not understand anything and do not want to understand in site building. Try to understand why your boyfriend is so interested in his hobby. Ask him to talk about his hobby and you will see how his eyes light up. Perhaps you will also enjoy this pastime. If the young man does not have special hobbies, invite him to do something together - sign up for a gym, painting classes, or a ballroom dance school.
According to psychologists, a couple should devote at least 3 hours a week to a common pastime.
Make friends with the same interests
If a guy flatly refuses to be interested in your hobbies, think about whether your separation of tastes is so critical. You should not force a person to do what he is not interested in. Find the best way - look for friends with the same interests in specialized forums or courses. There you will definitely find like-minded people who will support your endeavors and provide useful critical comments. Plus, you and your boyfriend still need to take a break from each other and have at least a tiny corner of your personal space. And communicating with your interests and doing what you love will become an outlet for you in everyday life.
