All people strive to find their soul mate. As soon as this happens, over time, young people can legalize their relationship or stay in a civil marriage. But in both cases, life will be different from what it was before marriage and came after it. Often in the relationship between a man and a woman, there are cases when it is unbearable to live with each other, then you need to take timely measures to avoid the destruction of the relationship.
Instructions
Step 1
If you recently got married and feel that you cannot stand each other's characters, then you need to contact your partner directly and find a compromise for both. After the wedding, it often happens that the relationship is not as great and lasting as it was before marriage. Now you are an independent unit of society, which must fulfill the responsibilities of the family. Someone in the house needs to wash, clean, iron, maintain comfort, etc. If all this is undertaken only by the spouse, and the husband will pursue his hobbies and hobbies, then a scandal is inevitable. The family should have an equal distribution of responsibilities. Someone cooks, cleans the house, does laundry, while another goes shopping, ironing, taking out the trash. If the conversation between spouses is productive, then quarrels at the household level can be avoided.
Step 2
If everything is fine in your family, you work steadily and earn money, your husband is also a successful employee, and there are no conflicts between you, then you may be fed up with monotony and everyday life. There is no former interest in each other, everything is the same every day. Then you can heal the attitude by bringing some kind of variety to your life. For example, arrange a romantic evening with scented candles, cook your own favorite dishes or order them at a restaurant at home, dress in elegant suits. Remember how good it was for you together. Then you can give each other a massage or go to an interesting concert where you can shout the songs of your favorite performers and dance to your heart's content.
Step 3
If your first-born has appeared in your family, and you began to not understand each other, then you should have a heart-to-heart talk and find out who is right and who is wrong. Indeed, with the appearance of a baby, spouses can move away from each other, constant crying and lack of sleep make themselves felt. The husband needs to go to work every day, and the wife alone has to deal with the housework and with the baby. It seems to the spouse that she alone can take care of the child, and the spouse thinks that no one needs him now. The wife found a replacement for him in the form of a baby. The husband and wife should understand that they are now living for their child. The father should also take part in the upbringing of the baby, and the wife needs to understand her husband as much as possible, because in addition to sleepless nights, he also faces workdays. But the wife also needs to be given a rest, the spouse can go for a walk with the baby on his weekend so that the wife can take a short nap.
