Many mothers say with concern that the child has been replaced. At the same time, it is noted that this happened when the child's age began to approach three years. The crisis of three years is an inexplicable thing. Previously calm child becomes angry and irritable, he has his own "I", which is contrary to common sense.
At this age, children consider it normal to hit or bite someone. They start to fight with parents and friends, insult and generally behave extremely badly. Tantrums are accompanied by scary screams, an unbought toy or candy becomes an excuse to start roaring and falling, despite the fact that you are in a public place.
The main mistake of many parents is as follows: they begin to react to all the miracles that a previously calm child creates during a three-year crisis. And children feel it and begin to do bad things to a greater extent. Beating a child is also not an option, he will grow up angry, and will not love his parents, and there is little sense from the belt.
Children are subtle psychologists, they feel the moment when the "concert" can end with the acquisition of what they dreamed of. After all, it is much cheaper to give or buy than to watch his screams in the middle of a shopping center.
Many are wondering when the crisis of three years will end. It is impossible to say with certainty, the formation of personality is different for everyone, but usually by the age of four it passes by itself. And the less you pay attention to all the tantrums, the faster the child will understand that nothing will be achieved in this way. And he will begin to look for other moves and exits to your heart, the main thing is to develop the correct strategy for your behavior, which will positively affect your child.
