To understand how he really treats you is a problem that has worried people for a long time. Not everyone shows their feelings in such a way that they are easy to interpret. It also happens that a person says one thing, but he thinks completely differently, hoping to achieve something by deception.
Look in your eyes
Pay attention to how the person is looking at you. Very few people will be able to "fake" a look. If he is open and friendly, then you will immediately understand this, even if the person is laconic. The eyes will tell you everything about his true feelings much faster than any words or compliments. Even if he is embarrassed and cannot find the right words, then the way he looks at you will not be reflected in any way.
Sometimes a person sympathizes with you, but is afraid to express it. He may look at you, but he is afraid to meet your gaze. Try looking away and then suddenly look up. If he is watching you, he will not have time to look away.
"Read" his gestures
People usually cannot control their gestures, unless they specifically worked on it. Even so, very few people succeed. Gestures express a person's position, they indicate his emotional perception of events. When a person is friendly and open towards you, they seem to open up. The toes of his shoes are turned towards you, as if he himself turns towards you with his whole body.
When the interlocutor is “closed” and insincere, he crosses his arms and legs, subconsciously closes his hands from you, instinctively turns away.
When a man is waiting for your attention, his whole body seems to signal this. His body is "open" to you, he can start copying your gestures, straightening his belt or hair.
Communication
It is important how the person communicates with you. If he likes you, he treats you with attention, does not interrupt, listens to your position on any issue. If he behaves dismissively, then think about whether sympathy on his part really takes place?
If you are at a loss as to his sincere opinion of you, try asking mutual acquaintances how he speaks of you. Often a lot can be understood on this basis.
You are already together
It happens that a girl is lost in conjecture what is the true attitude of his young man towards her when they are already together. In this case, just have a heart-to-heart talk with him. There is no need to fiddle with him with questions: "Do you love me?" or "How do you feel about me?" Create a trusting atmosphere in which he is relaxed and more open. Then you can start a conversation about what worries you about him and makes you doubt him. Do not forget that men are often more reserved in expressing their feelings than women.
