Today sex shops offer many different toys to spice up the sex life. But if your partner bought an inflatable doll, you should think about whether everything is fine in your marriage. Of course, it could be a joke on his part, but if it is not, something needs to be changed.
Start by analyzing your intimacy, think about how often it happens, whether your man is satisfied with this regularity, whether he likes to make love to you. The presence of an inflatable doll may indicate that a man really lacks sex and is trying to satisfy his biological needs.
If there is a problem
If a spouse often refuses sex, if she has a headache, or has no desire to do something, then there is a high probability that the man is not happy with this. This state of affairs needs to be changed, but the husband does not know how to do it. He can hint, speak directly, but if this does not help, more compelling arguments are used. If he bought a doll, you should even say thank you to him, because he did not go to look for a mistress for himself, but tries to explain to his beloved in such an unusual way that it is time to change something.
Start talking to your husband, just ask about the reasons for his action. There is no need to be rude, insult, or make claims, just calmly discuss the situation. It is better to do this in private, when children, parents or friends are not around. It is better if everyone is calm so as not to switch to raised tones. And when asking, listen to the answer, do not interrupt, but analyze the behavior of your husband. You need not to quarrel, but to come to a common decision, to find a compromise in your life so that the marriage does not fall apart. Tell him how you feel when you see a rubber woman, talk about embarrassment, discontent, but without undue emotion. Ask what needs to be done to get him out of the house. Find the optimal way out for both.
Strange joke
A rubber woman may not be a reproach that you are a bad lover, but a gift from friends or acquaintances. Sometimes you don't need to get upset, but ask about how she came about. This could be a hint that he wants to experiment with two women, or just an attempt to cheer you up. Each person has their own sense of humor, and it can manifest itself in this way. Don't be stressful, just ask a man about this toy. Sometimes the reason for its occurrence is completely banal, and the woman has already come up with a bunch of terrible things for herself.
Experiment
If you see a rival in the doll, this indicates the fragility of your relationship. If he bought it to replace you, then you need to worry. But you can also react in an unusual way. Start playing, tell your husband that you really like this idea, that the doll fits perfectly into your interior. Talk to her, watch movies together. And if the husband uses her for sex, then tell him that his new girlfriend will also cook for him.
It is necessary not to deny its appearance, but to make it funny. She solves some of his problems, which is great, but she can help you, relieving you of some of the chores around the house. If you choose such a position, then it is important not to scandalize, not to swear, but to play the role of a benevolent wife. Most likely, the husband will quickly get tired of it and he will take the purchase to the far corner.
