Who better explains how to give a blowjob to a man than the man himself? But you are unlikely to get a clear manual from your partner instead of unintelligible groans and rolling your eyes. Let's study the theory!
It all starts with caresses
How to have oral sex so that your partner will never forget it? To begin with, carefully study the penis with admiring eyes - this is one of the most exciting moments for men. Then use your fingers or tongue to caress the lower edge of the head where it joins the trunk, then move on to the caress of the frenum - the most sensitive part of the penis. Take the head in your mouth, creating resistance with your lips, tease the area around the urethra with your tongue, squeeze the barrel with your lips. Alternate caresses with your lips and tongue, remembering to move your hand along the well-moistened trunk and gently squeezing your partner's testicles.
Moving on to action
When your partner begins to moan and try to guide your head with your hands, take the head deeper and start actively moving your mouth and hand along the trunk, watching for his reaction. At the same time, rotate your head to the sides without releasing the head from your mouth. Ideally, if you manage to create a kind of vacuum in your mouth, simply straining your mouth as if you were sucking in a viscous thick mass with your lips. Suck on the head, but do not overdo it - with strong arousal, the sensitivity of the nerve endings increases significantly and too active an effect can be unpleasant.
Relax the larynx
Oral sex techniques most often involve the presence of a gag reflex - especially when the head is swallowed deeply. Most men seek to enhance the pleasure of blowjob, literally pushing their partner's mouth onto their penis, losing control of themselves. If this is a problem for you, but you want to overcome it, try a position in which you lie on your stomach, with your head at the edge of the bed and tilted back. In this position, the partner will be able to more easily pass the angle between the root of the tongue and the throat by the member, inserting it as deeply as possible. If this is too difficult for you, just practice relaxing your larynx using a small dildo as a trainer.
Orgasm on the doorstep
If you are not a porn star and practice simple home oral sex, but you do not like to swallow sperm, remember the signs of an approaching partner's orgasm. It is easily recognized by the enlargement of the head, the discharge of clear fluid from the urethra, and the tension of the body with the hips giving way forward. Knowing this, you will always have time to step back and relieve yourself of discomfort.
