A relationship with a married man, even if you really love him, cannot be happy and cloudless. There can be only two outcomes - either you will experience a breakup, which can be very painful, or destroy his family, which will also be very unpleasant for everyone, including his wife and children. Even if a married man divorces, which happens very rarely, all the same, most likely, you will subconsciously expect infidelity from him, remembering your relationship with him.
Instructions
Step 1
Having a relationship with a man who is already married simply has a catastrophic effect on a woman's self-esteem. She does not feel loved and desired, every evening her man returns to the house, but not to her, but to his wife. If you got involved in such a relationship, then you need to understand what pushed you to this choice. Most women are incapable of falling in love with a married man for the reason that it is just instinctively that women avoid situations in which such a relationship could arise. An affair with an unfree man is humiliation, pain and suffering. If you have such an affair, do you associate love with a feeling of pain? Most likely, there is such a problem. First of all, be aware of it, then you can move on.
Step 2
There are some types of relationships that can be classified as hopeless. As a rule, the reason why people's feelings cannot develop into a strong and serious relationship is the unequal position of partners. In this case, the final word always remains with the married man - he leaves, and the woman is waiting for him. If you allow yourself such a relationship, then you probably close your eyes to their hopelessness, out of fear of loneliness or for other reasons. Think about what makes you try to keep a married man.
Step 3
After reflecting on the situation, you should move on to practical steps. Feelings for another person, no matter how strong they may be, should not be stronger than feelings in relation to oneself. You just need to raise your self-esteem. This can be done with the help of a psychologist or you can try to figure out yourself on your own. Sometimes people make excuses by following their feelings, but the reality is that they just don't value themselves too much. If you have low self-esteem, then, probably, it will continue to turn out that the most attractive men for you will be the ones who will create even more problems with your self-esteem.
Step 4
A married man who has a relationship with you most likely does not want to part with you or his wife. Therefore, in most cases, such people only aggravate the situation, preventing the woman from thinking and realizing how deplorable her situation is, so that she depends on him even more and does not go anywhere. Perhaps the man himself is confused and simply cannot resolve the situation.
Step 5
Take a look into your future. If you do not break this relationship and do not try to forget your married loved one, then what will your life be like in 5 years? It's still the same, isn't it? And if you decide on this difficult step and start working on yourself, raise your self-esteem, then in 5 years you will most likely already meet your person who really appreciates you. A happy future does not come until you go towards it.
