: Have you met a handsome young man, the man of your dreams somewhere at a party, but he sits in the company of friends, looks at you timidly and is in no hurry to take any action? To get to know him, you will have to act on your own, find the right ways of dating that will work even on a timid guy.
Instructions
Step 1
You don't know how to get to know you if a guy is shy and in no hurry to make an acquaintance with you? Most timid young guys do not dare to meet an attractive girl, as they are afraid of her refusal, caustic jokes and other disappointments. Take control of the situation by using different ways to get the young person's attention to yourself.
Step 2
If you are indoors, sit on a chair, stool or sofa, maintaining an attractive posture, cross your legs, and then, as if by chance, begin to straighten your hair. A guy, even a very timid one, will definitely turn his attention to you, but he will be afraid to come up and speak first. Therefore, after finishing the finishing touches to your hairstyle, think about how to contact him yourself and ask a question that provides for a consistent, non-monosyllabic answer.
Step 3
To get to know a guy, ask him something simple that men can talk about for hours, avoiding talking about the weather, literature, nature. At the time of establishing an acquaintance, it is worth talking about football and fishing last, because even before you meet a guy you cannot know exactly what place these favorite male activities occupy among the young man's hobbies.
Step 4
Take a close look at the guy externally, but imperceptibly for him, try to determine his occupation in order to quickly find a suitable topic for conversation. So, if you want to meet a timid guy in an educational institution or in the courtyard of a university and already know which faculty he is studying at, ask him to help you with something. Not a single normal young man, even if he is shy in front of a girl, will refuse to help her, on the contrary, he will feel like a real hero and will forget about his complexes at least for a while.
Step 5
Ask the young man to explain to you the solution to the problem, find some kind of audience, take to the dean's office, and ask him questions all the time to keep the conversation in the right direction for you. A timid guy himself will not notice how he will cease to be ashamed of you, open up, strike up a casual conversation, and it is already in your power to do everything necessary to continue the acquaintance that has begun.
Step 6
Do not ask the young man for his phone number, it is better to invite him over for a cup of tea, without promising him anything extra. Perhaps his visit to you will simply be limited to tea, or maybe it will develop into a more serious relationship, especially if you really manage to please the guy.
