Some people are skeptical about online dating, claiming that falling in love with an image from a distance can be too disappointing when meeting in person. Indeed, no one is immune from failures. But many modern men live in an endless cycle "to work - home - to work", they simply do not have time to look for a life partner among the bustle of the city. And the best way out, of course, is the Internet, where you can find out even before the invitation to a date if there are any common interests with the person.
Instructions
Step 1
Register on any dating site you know. Better on several at once. Try to select large enough, proven resources.
Step 2
Fill in as much information as possible about yourself. Not always, but quite often it is the design of the questionnaire that becomes for a woman looking for a serious relationship, the decisive factor when choosing to answer or not.
Step 3
The advantage of dating sites is that you can immediately try to find a woman according to the parameters of interest: age, height, interests, goals of dating, having children, etc.
Step 4
Social networks are very popular today. If you treat dating through specialized sites with distrust or disdain, then you can try to find a life partner through some well-known Russian or foreign social network. It may even make it easier for you to strike up a dialogue.
Step 5
Almost all women prefer to see the initiative on the part of a man, to feel the strength of character. It doesn't matter whose phrase ended the previous conversation, write first.
Step 6
Set the tone for communication from the first minutes. Please note that if the dialogue does not work out, then it is unlikely that a continuation will follow. Write competently, politely, openly. Do not be rude, do not be rude to a woman. Show that you respect her. Although, of course, if this is not your style, then you should not pretend to be who you are not. Sooner or later, the true state of affairs will become clear anyway.
Step 7
Don't be intrusive. A couple of letters or calls a week is enough if the woman tells you that she is often busy. Maintain interest in yourself, but don't overdo it.
Step 8
If you met a girl from the same city with you, then do not hesitate to offer a meeting. Typically, the longer virtual communication lasts, the harder it is to move to real-life meetings and the harder it is to meet expectations.
Step 9
When you are sure that there is mutual sympathy between you and your new acquaintance, proceed to active actions. Let them know that you are very serious. Perhaps even start a discussion about your future life together. This is a very thin line of relationships, overcoming which you will reach a new level. When the goals of both partners are clear, the dialogues can become more frank. You will be able to ask questions that would be considered impolite before the seriousness of your position is indicated. From this moment, the period of grinding in characters begins.
