Many parents and teachers complain that their children and students are passive and have little interest in anything. To begin with, you yourself should decide what kind of class or extracurricular activity you would like to attract your child to, and this is not so easy.
Necessary
- Straight talk with schoolchildren
- Be aware of their interests, be interested in the modern hobbies of schoolchildren in general
Instructions
Step 1
Do you think that your students or children are very passive and have little interest in anything? You are not alone. Now the problem of involving children and schoolchildren in public life is very serious. What are the most important activities of schoolchildren from the point of view of parents and teachers? This is reading, in-depth studies of school subjects (mathematics, physics, chemistry), sports, participation in olympiads, art and music additional education.
Step 2
If your child has just started school, you have a chance to fix everything quickly and painlessly. In general, in an amicable way, the child should be taught to read, science and sports earlier, but in grades 1 and 2, the child is more susceptible to the opinion of parents and teachers. So what can you do.
Find good interesting books. Pick them specifically for your child. Read together, read your favorite children's books, let your child see the book in your hands more often, too. How can you instill a love of reading if you don't like reading yourself?
Step 3
You want to get your child involved in sports. Before you start reading long lectures about the benefits of sports, think about it, how long have you been involved in sports for the last time? Your example, joint sports leisure is very important. When choosing a sports section for a child, you should not proceed from your unfulfilled dreams. If your student prefers company and it is difficult for him to be alone even for half an hour, feel free to choose team sports. This will not only strengthen the child, but also help build relationships with peers. If your son or daughter is more self-sufficient, individual sports are clearly suitable for children: tennis, figure skating, gymnastics.
Step 4
You really want to develop the mental abilities of your child, introduce him to various Olympiads and competitions. You should immediately accept that not everything depends on you. If the child objectively does not have technical and mathematical abilities, interest in mathematics, one should not delude oneself. But you can keep your child's mental abilities in a constant tone: pick up interesting tasks for him a little more difficult than they are in school. Play chess and board games, find an interesting math circle that suits your child's level of knowledge. Then, if the abilities appear later, it will be much easier for your student to prove himself.
Step 5
If you've always dreamed that your child will play and sing or paint, then be honest with yourself. If this is your unfulfilled desire to become a musician, singer or artist, you should not transfer this projection to your child. But it should be understood that the ability to music and to draw usually manifests itself very early. If your child is gifted in these areas, this could not pass by you unnoticed. Such abilities need to be developed, and your child himself will ask you to take him to a music or art school.
Step 6
If your child is approaching a transitional age, and he has not developed clear interests, this is an alarming sign. Something passed you by in its development, because all people are gifted in one area or another. But in adolescence or pre-adolescence, the child listens little to the opinion of the parents. He is carried away by the environment, peers, there he seeks and finds authoritative opinions. If you decide to help your child, find a good environment for him. Transfer him to a school where the children are motivated enough for their studies or other achievements. Let him go to the circles that his friends go to, and not where you went. The main thing is that he will be passionate, socialized, self-confident and busy.
