Each woman decides for herself whether she will be happy in bed or not. She can become the best lover and get an orgasm every time and several times. To a woman during sex was at the "peak", you need to make a lot of effort.
It happens that people just ooze sexuality. And it is easy for them in bed. They know what sexual attraction is, and that without it there will be no joy in bed for either partner. Only beavers love logs.
If you have sex for the first time, then do not despair that in bed you showed yourself not on your best side. More often than not, the excitement, stress, and other side effects of vibrant sex don't work. The first pancake is always lumpy. You will still catch up.
Tell your partner that you like certain innuendo in bed from him. Try with all your appearance, and sometimes words (depending on your and partner's temperament) to show that your man is the best. And you will notice that the man during sex will try to give you and himself more pleasure. Prove to him how much you love having sex, and with him in particular.
You can tell your counterpart directly, for example, that you are madly in love with kisses on the shoulder. Or, in a playful way, show exactly what actions on his part excite you. This is the beauty of sex in long-term relationships, as the bond between partners becomes stronger over the years and they are open to each other.
The ability to seduce favorably distinguishes a woman from a man. Most of the men are typical hunters who want to "fill up" the prey and be dominant. You shouldn't tell your partner that, they say, "come on, let's start, I'll have a series in 20 minutes."
To bring to orgasm can only be a partner who does not have complexes and is not required of him that he does not know how. A man is a small child, and if scared away, it will be difficult to return to normal sexual activity. This means that sex will be mediocre and boring.
A woman's sexual pleasure and its achievement lies in a satisfied and willing partner.
Be wild and unbridled. It's time to forget about stereotypes, lessons of "house building" and other indecencies in our modern world. Many people say that sex in a long-term relationship only gets richer and more sensual.