In the life of parents, there comes a time when children grow up and begin to live separately, as their family. They independently solve their everyday and current problems, enriching their life experience.
Independence
Living together with parents does not allow children to show their independence. Based on the housing moment, the parents, not the children, are the owners of the house. Therefore, all everyday problems are solved by mom or dad.
In most cases, the opinion of children living together is not taken into account. Parents do not consider it necessary to consult with their children about resolving issues related to the maintenance of the house, food, etc. As a result, children get used to the fact that their parents decide everything for them and do not make attempts to resolve the issues that arise.
Living with their parents, children do not make attempts to acquire their own housing. They are happy with everything, they are comfortable. Having given birth to their own children, they will not be able to instill in them independence in their actions, they will not be able to set a positive example for them. They will also live off their parents.
The son, living with his parents and already having his own family, does not strive to become a full-fledged master of the house. In everyday life, such a husband is completely unadapted to economic issues. In the event of the loss of his father, he will undergo a complex process of adaptation to independent life in adulthood. If he fails to adapt, he may lose his family, since he will not fully provide for it.
Conflicts
When two or more generations live together, relationship problems invariably arise. The older generation thinks that they know life better and by this right they are trying to manage the lives of their children. Children, on the other hand, want to live their own lives, so they protest against excessive parental care. Against this background, conflict situations arise.
If there are several women in a large family, problems may arise with the division of the territory of an apartment or house. Every woman wants to be a mistress, to decide for herself what and when to cook, what and when to do. Only the display of the wisdom of older women will help to properly distribute responsibilities around the house. Living separately from her parents, a woman quickly adapts to family life. In addition, it gives her a sense of confidence in her position as a mistress of the house.
When raising children in a multi-generational family, there may be problems in parenting methods. It is difficult to reduce the requirements of all family members to one system. Children, to whom different requirements are imposed from adults, become opportunists in communication and do not have a specific line of behavior.
