Pregnancy can be the happiest moment for some people and a real disaster for others. Perhaps the scariest thing about an unplanned pregnancy is talking to your parents. Parents' reactions are difficult to predict, even if you have a great relationship with them.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, you need to psychologically prepare for such a responsible conversation. Think about how your mom and dad reacted to various shocking experiences - both negative and positive. Supported you? Shouted and made a scandal? Did you show any special emotions? Scroll through a possible conversation in your head, think over the answers to possible questions - this way it will be easier for you to navigate in any development of events.
Step 2
Pick an opportune moment. If you see that your parents are having a tough day and they are very annoyed, then it is best not to aggravate the situation. Seize the moment when you all have enough time to calmly discuss everything. For example, at dinner or a family lunch. The right moment is the key to success.
Step 3
Consider starting a conversation. The hardest part is to start, because the words seem to get stuck in the throat. Try this: "I have something very important to tell you. I am pregnant." Then wait, don't jabber. Let your parents digest the information.
Step 4
Listen. The first reaction is difficult to predict. Even the calmest parents can start yelling, and the nervous ones read lectures. Do not interrupt your parents, let them express their opinion on the situation and let off steam.
Step 5
Share your feelings. It is very important to show your parents how you are feeling. For example: "Mom and Dad, I know that I have disappointed you. I am disappointed in myself. And I am sorry that I have to upset you." Share your worries and fears, for example: "I'm scared, I don't know what to do in this situation, what my friends will think." Don't be afraid to show your emotions, even if you have to speak through tears. You should not keep everything to yourself, because your parents are your closest people.
