The classic and most common situation: the guy liked the girl. And strongly, sunk into the soul. He really wants to date her. But a reasonable question immediately arises: will the girl want this? What is the right way to behave on the first date so that it does not become the last? How to awaken her genuine interest in your person? Of course, all people are different, and therefore there is no universal method here and cannot be. But still, it doesn't hurt to use simple rules.
Instructions
Step 1
"Haste is needed only when catching fleas!" - this immortal phrase of Kozma Prutkov should be memorized by all the guys, like a multiplication table. Even a very relaxed girl will hardly like it if, five minutes after the start of the first date, you persistently begin to persuade her to intimacy. With a probability of 99%, she will conclude that you are one of those "preoccupied" who need "only one thing" from girls, and will no longer meet with you.
Step 2
Be yourself! Girls, contrary to the widespread male misconception, are not at all stupid or blind. At least until they are in love. Well, and your potential darling is definitely not in love with you, so she easily recognizes falsity, insincerity. Do not try to impress her by portraying either a relative of some influential person, or a young genius - the hope of Russian science and the future Nobel Prize winner. Believe me, you will only make yourself worse, because the deception will surely be revealed quickly! True, girls can forgive guys a lot, but it's better not to put yourself in a stupid position.
Step 3
Try to think not only for yourself, but also for the girl. Try to mentally put yourself in her place, try to imagine what kind of impression you are making on her at this moment, what she might think about, what traits of your character and actions she might like, and which ones, on the contrary, repel. This is not easy, because due to the difference in female and male physiology and psychology, guys and girls may look at the same thing in completely different ways. But at least try it! At least, in order to make adjustments to your behavior in time. It's worth it.
Step 4
Well, and one more trifle: remember that the overwhelming majority of girls simply "do not digest" stingy and bored.
