In the West, women are pursuing a career, in the East - with a family. And only in Russia a lady will be considered successful if her position is not lower than that of a superior, and her husband is ideal, and there are three children - no less. And besides, the house should be in order, and three changes of dishes for breakfast, lunch and dinner in the refrigerator, and the appearance, like some movie star after ten plastic surgeries. Of course, no one fits this image. That is why everyone suffers amicably from the fact that life passes by, and they do not have time to do anything.
If you have to choose, then the easiest thing for the average Russian woman is to refuse work. As recent polls have shown, more than half of our compatriots do not work. But if you still have to get up at seven in the morning and not just take the children to schools and kindergartens, but pack up and rush to the office through traffic jams, what then? How to reduce stress and reduce stress?
At first glance, given the post-Soviet mentality, it may seem that there is no way out. But this is self-deception and an attempt not to change anything, submitting to the opinion of the crowd and the stereotypes imposed by great-grandmothers. Here you need to follow the example of Western women, in another way, alas, it will not work. And we need not talk about any feminist things that are unlikely to take root in our country. And about what is really good for mental health and moral well-being.
Everyone must have heard that in any European country not only the family budget is replenished by spouses in equal shares, but household duties are divided equally. As a result, everyone is happy, no one is overloaded and cleaning is done on time, and not on Saturday instead of visiting friends. It would seem that what could be simpler? But at the very thought of this, most contemporaries will have the hair on their heads standing on end. Just imagine - the husband is in the kitchen! This is a catastrophe! He would never agree!
The question immediately arises: did someone ask?
Suddenly he likes to cook, but his mother has been repeating since childhood that this is not a man's occupation? After all, all the chefs in the best restaurants are men, and women cook for school canteens and fast food (of course, exaggerated, but not far from the truth). Well, if the spouse is still not on friendly terms with the kitchen, there are other options.
He will probably be able to walk around the apartment with a vacuum cleaner. And even a three-year-old baby can wash the dishes, let alone a forty-year-old uncle. By the way, they taught him to peel potatoes in the army … that's right, information for thought, just in case.
So why be shy? He did not hesitate to send the faithful to work, so that she would share with him in half the worries about the financial well-being of the family. So let him show respect himself and take care of a little comfort in the house with her. Everything is fair, isn't it?
