Sooner or later, the betrayal of one of the spouses may be revealed, but even such a seemingly hopeless situation can have a calm and peaceful resolution.
Female infidelity
If a man finds out about the betrayal of his wife, the lovers need to seriously talk. Just before such a conversation, the wife needs to decide for herself whether she wants to continue to preserve the family and pray to her husband for forgiveness, or, perhaps, collect things and leave this person in the past. If everything is clear with the second option, in the case of the first one, the fairer sex will have to do serious work on the mistakes. However, in any case, most likely, a big scandal cannot be avoided.
How to save a family after betrayal by a wife
Remember that in a situation of adultery on the part of the wife, only the woman cannot be guilty. Try to understand for yourself the reason for the betrayal. Most often, they include the husband's inattention, banal boredom, suspicion of male infidelity, or new love. After it becomes clear to you why you decided to take such a step, prepare well for a conversation with your beloved, because the spouse will begin to ask about who he is - his rival, how long have you had a relationship with him, what feelings you have for him.
Choose the right moment for this difficult conversation and try to tell what exactly caused your infidelity. Be patient and be prepared for the fact that your husband simply won't listen to you. In this case, you will have to wait until he cools down and brings up the topic himself. Apologize to your loved one, promise never to make such mistakes again. Most likely, if your spouse decides to give you a second chance, you will have to regain his trust for a long time.
Try to return more to this topic, more often take an interest in what worries your spouse (men love when they are listened to), be attentive, patient, gentle, spend more time together with your beloved, more often recall the pleasant moments of years lived together, pay special attention to your intimate life and create a romantic mood.
If the spouse decides not to forgive you and asks for a divorce, do not make tantrums and scandals, remember that partly you yourself have destroyed your love. Let this person go, give him the opportunity to be happy in other ways. In addition, it is possible that you will soon find a person whom you will never betray. Over time, everything will fall into place, so do not despair, suffer and get depressed.
