You were happily married for a while and nothing seemed to darken your marriage. And then you learned that your wife is cheating on you. Naturally, you think about the best course of action. There cannot be one effective strategy for everyone. Human relations is a delicate area that requires an individual approach for each specific case.
Instructions
Step 1
First, weigh the pros and cons. Decide if you really want to keep your relationship with your wife or if they are doomed anyway. To do this, think about whether it is your fault for cheating on your wife, whether you pushed her into it, or whether the tendency to infidelity is a property of her character. If the fault is still yours, you can try to fix it.
Step 2
Analyze what exactly you did wrong, where you were wrong in your relationship with your wife. Perhaps she already pointed out some nuances to you, but you did not pay attention. If you are ready to make concessions, have a heart-to-heart talk with your wife, let her know that her words and desires are important to you. But at the same time, do not tell her what you know about her lover, otherwise she may decide that this is a good means of manipulating you, and will change in the future.
Step 3
Perhaps your wife has received little attention from you lately - fix that. Give her flowers, invite her to a movie or a restaurant, just like during the candy-bouquet period. Spend time together and communicate more often. Try to find a common hobby or interest and do it together. In other words, refresh your senses. Let your wife remember why she fell in love with you.
Step 4
Become attractive to your wife again. If you have physical problems, sign up for a gym. Start eating right - you can do this with your spouse if she is interested. If you are used to spending time in front of the TV or computer after work, be more active. Help your wife around the house or create an interesting activity for yourself or the whole family. Let your wife see you as an interesting active person.
Step 5
If your wife began to cheat on you because of your betrayal, be ready to reform. If you are ready to be faithful to her, tell your wife about it. Explain to her how dear she is to you and that you are ready to be only with her. If you are cheating yourself, you cannot demand loyalty from your partner.
Step 6
If, on the contrary, you are an exemplary family man, and your wife cheats because of the love of thrills, try doing the opposite. Make her jealous of you. Flirt with other women, such as coworkers. It shouldn't be too obvious, but the wife should understand that you are attractive to other women. Most likely, after this, your partner will appreciate you more and be afraid of losing.
Step 7
If you've been blowing dust off your wife so far and have been more interested in your relationship, try the opposite tactic. If your wife thinks that you cannot live without her and are ready to forgive her everything, she can cheat, hoping that she can get away with it. In this case, do what she does not expect of you. Show indifference to her connection on the side. Pay less attention to her. Work more and spend time with your friends. This can make the wife miss you and your attention, she will want your love back and leave her lover.
