You wake up at night, eat poorly, mope and smoke a lot. Then all this is replaced by real euphoria and wild joy. Your mother follows you with an anxious look, afraid to ask about the reason for such moods. Yes, she already understands everything. She was young, too. You are in love and perhaps without reciprocity. Unrequited love. This kind of love is experienced by 70-80% of the younger generation. So it touched you.
It is necessary
Patience, desire to understand the current situation
Instructions
Step 1
The reason for poor appetite and sleep is that you can’t figure out whether he wants to be with you or not. You often visit the same company, study at the same faculty, you have mutual friends, and you have already hinted to him a hundred times that you are very sympathetic to him. But so far nothing has happened.
Step 2
You are tormented by doubts, guesses. You catch his looks, gestures. His every word is like a precious gift for you. You are looking for some hidden meaning in all his actions and deeds that expresses sympathy for you. Today you are in seventh place with happiness - he called you to the student canteen. Yes, he likes you, he looked at you and smiled like that. And tomorrow you die of his indifference.
Step 3
It's very easy to understand that a guy doesn't want to be with you. After all, if he wanted to be with you, he would have told you about it long ago.
The problem is different. Often, we don't want to believe with our eyes and our ears. We refuse to completely understand things that are absolutely clear to everyone around us, such as the indifference of our chosen one. And the reason for this is always only one - strong love and the desire to be loved. When you love deeply and dream of a relationship, you are unable to understand that you might not be loved. Love makes people dumber.
And even having realized with the remnants of your loving mind that they do not want you, you will still hope for a miracle, agonize and worry. And only a doctor-time and a new hobby will heal your broken heart and take you out of this state.
Françoise Sagan wrote about this beautifully in the story "Vague Smile".
