Constant quarrels and showdowns tire spouses, exhaust their relationship. One of them may unwittingly think about divorce. How to prevent divorce?
Instructions
Step 1
No matter how offensive and bitter it may be, in a fit of feelings, never talk about divorce. Don't scare or threaten with divorce. You can only talk about divorce with a cool head, after you have made a decision for yourself. Otherwise, your ultimatum will be accepted, you with your own hands will push your spouse (spouse) to seriously think about a complete break in the relationship.
Step 2
Understand your feelings and calmly analyze the situation. What are all family quarrels connected with, when exactly it all began, what steps you personally need to take to establish harmony in the family. To break, not to build, think about whether in your hearts it is worth breaking off relations with the person to whom you have given so much energy and time, is it so necessary to sacrifice all the good in your relationship that you have managed to acquire. Are you ready to start a new life, or is it better to overcome difficulties and deal with obstacles.
Step 3
Spouses often shower each other with accusations and attribute all wrongdoings to their other half. But have you never been guilty? You should not get personal and blame, insult each other for human qualities. It is more correct to discuss the situation, specific actions. Try to listen to your significant other and try to see if it is your fault in this situation.
Step 4
Do not keep silent and do not accumulate resentment and unspoken experiences in your soul. Indeed, over time, they turn into a whole bunch of negative emotions, and it is difficult to understand why a loved one began to annoy and anger, seemingly for no reason. Talk about your feelings, solve problems as they arise. Learn to forgive, you need to give a person a second chance, an opportunity to improve. All people are not perfect and have the right to make mistakes.
Step 5
Don't let problems at work, personal setbacks, affect relationships in your family. You can not get lost on family and loved ones. Personal emotional experiences can be discussed with a loved one, enlist his support and consolation. If chaos reigns in your soul, start working on yourself, go in for sports, yoga, what you love, try to calm down. Do not bring disharmony to the family, as you will soon feel the opposite negative reaction from your spouse.
