Unfortunately, there are conflicts in every family. It is impossible to have the same points of view on all issues, so disagreements between spouses are quite natural. However, if during a quarrel one of the partners allows himself to shout and insult his opponent, there is a serious reason to think. Although the transition to screaming is more characteristic of women, as creatures with heightened emotionality, it is often possible to find a situation where the husband shouts at his wife.
Such behavior of a man may indicate that he is faced with a problem that he is unable to cope with. In this case, his cry is a reaction to psychological stress, an attempt to get rid of strong internal tension and throw out emotions. You need to calmly talk with your spouse and find out what worries him, and then try with him to find a way out of the stressful situation. Perhaps, having said his problem out loud, a man will understand that it is completely solvable.
Often the husband yells at his wife, taking out anger at her boss or colleague. At work, he has to suppress negative emotions, and at home he gives them a way out. Carefully advise your spouse to go to a fitness club and take up boxing. The punching bag is a great object for expressing suppressed aggression.
A possible reason for a man's aggressive behavior is his wife's inattention to his achievements. He is capricious, like a small child, trying to attract attention and receive recognition for his merits. Praise your husband more often, tell him what a wonderful person, spouse and specialist he is. Such words for a man are like a balm for the soul.
If your husband starts yelling at you, in no case do not respond in kind. It is better to let him speak, listen to him and try to understand how justified his claims are. Maybe you should make some concessions to him?
In any case, remember: the desire to understand your spouse, attention to him and analysis of the reasons for his behavior will help you make family relationships warmer and more sincere.
