If one of your partners cheated in your family, but you still made a decision not to ruin the relationship, try to get over the situation and learn from it. Relationships can be restored even after infidelity, if you love each other and are ready to forgive your partner.
Instructions
Step 1
If you find out about your husband's betrayal, but understand that you will feel very bad without him, then try to forgive him. But in that case, never reproach him with this offense again. The hurt you hold in your heart will prevent you from being happy again. Agree with your spouse that you will start everything from scratch, but you can only give this chance for him once.
Step 2
Be sure to talk frankly with your spouse, because the reason for your husband can be not only his frivolity and frivolity, but also your mistakes. Think about how often you are affectionate with your significant other, whether you often arrange surprises, romantic dinners, whether you are well-groomed enough to arouse a man's interest. Be able to openly and frankly admit your guilt in what happened.
Step 3
Agree on how you will build your relationship in the future. Express to each other what, in your opinion, interferes with the harmonious development of family relations. But do not allow yourself to turn to shouting and insults during the conversation. Remain calm, learn to listen to your partner, and also try to look at the situation from his side.
Step 4
Remember the time when you just started dating, immerse yourself in joint memories of the period of romantic meetings, declarations of love. Look at old photos and make plans for the future, in which there will be many more such pleasant moments.
Step 5
If possible, go on a trip with your spouse (well, if you manage to visit those places where you were happy), arrange for yourself a second "honeymoon".
Step 6
Fight boredom and monotony in your family life in all possible ways: go to visit more often, to a cafe, to the theater, go out into nature with your children, prepare pleasant surprises for your loved one, etc.
Step 7
Start looking after yourself. Throw away your old dressing gown and get something light and sexy, try to lose weight, tighten your muscles. Surprise your partner with an unexpected makeover: go to the hairdresser, get a new hairstyle or change your hair color. In the end, rearrange the furniture in the apartment and regard this as the beginning of a new stage in your life together.
Step 8
Be especially attentive and gentle to your partner, affectionate and caring, and you will be able to cope with any difficulties, which means keeping the family together.
