Often, girls, having met a man a couple of times, build illusions about future stable and long-term relationships. Unfortunately, not all men dream of a strong family and quiet Sunday dinners, so women should be able to correctly determine the seriousness of the intentions of the stronger sex.
Instructions
Step 1
Most of the men who are scattered with compliments and singing praises on the first date, want to meet with you once or twice, and then drag you to bed. You are just another trophy for his vast and varied collection.
Step 2
When a guy is serious, he will not rush things, it is important for him to just be next to you, talk, look into your eyes. And meeting friends and parents will indicate his plans for your joint future. A man in love will treat you condescendingly, forgiving small grievances, which, perhaps, in another situation, could lead to serious disagreements.
Step 3
When a man is confident in your joint future, he will cease to be shy and complexes - he will be able to scratch his stomach or hug you after a morning run. In a word, do everything that you could not do in the first couple of months of your acquaintance. This is how men prepare for everyday life.
Step 4
Be sure to pay attention to how your boyfriend behaves with his mother. It is possible that he adheres to a different line of behavior with you, but over time, as many psychologists believe, he will behave with you the same way he treated his mother. The mother is the first woman with whom your young man began to communicate as a representative of the opposite sex. So you should pay close attention to this fact.
Step 5
Acquaintance with the boy's mother is a decisive and significant step in his life. And if in a conversation with his parents and friends he calls you a bride, then he has serious views on you. Be sure to watch the relationship of his parents. If he approves of family ties, the warm communication between father and mother, perhaps in the future, he will adopt the model of the relationship of his parents. If you notice that the guy already treats you like his father treats his wife, then be sure - he is far-sighted and plans your future.
Step 6
The main thing to remember is that you should not be tempted on the first date, because men are different. Someone considers sex on the first date something obligatory, and refusal will shock him, make him look at life differently; some still believe in the purity and sincerity of romantic relationships, considering themselves a conservative.
