In the case when, starting to date a man, a woman considers the gentleman as a possible future husband, it is quite natural that she wants to get confidence that her man is caring for her not just to spend time, but to build a family. How to distinguish flirting from serious intentions?
Instructions
Step 1
Pay attention to how the man behaves in your presence. If he is tuned in to a long-term relationship, then he will try to match your ideas about a cultured and well-mannered person. If, despite the fact that you are nearby, a man uses obscene words and does things for which you have to blush, stop meeting. Either he does not respect you and considers you as a new toy for a short time, or, on the contrary, considers you his property and subordinate.
Step 2
If a man is in love, he will forgive some minor offenses and whims. If he is in the process of hunting, then all these interference will serve as an annoying factor for him.
Step 3
If you have been dating for a long time, then the seriousness of his intentions can be determined by the fact that the man is no longer ashamed of you. He can entrust you with his secrets, ranging from family problems to a hole in his sock.
Step 4
An indicator of the seriousness of intentions can be considered familiarity with his social circle. Don't worry if the man is slow to introduce you to his parents. Until you know what kind of relationship they are in. But acquaintance with friends shows that you have become a really close person for him. If your boyfriend constantly talks about his parents and says that they are very dear to him, but is in no hurry to introduce them to you, it is possible that he is not considering the possibility of becoming a member of his family.
Step 5
Pay attention to how the guy treats you. If he agrees to endure your delay in intimate relationships, does not rush things, then he takes you seriously. It is more important for him to just be next to his beloved girl, and not quickly drag her into bed.
Step 6
Do not have any illusions about marriage, starting from the first meeting. Sometimes, in order to get to know a person, you need to communicate with him for more than one year.
