Mom is the main word, the first word in every destiny …, "The best friends are mom and a pillow" - how many more words, poems, songs are written about a person who feels his child even at a distance, wishes him only well and can always understand and forgive, even if the beloved child brought a terrible offense and inflicted mental trauma.
Instructions
Step 1
Without exception, all children are inordinately indebted to their parents, especially their mothers: for the difficulties of bearing and childbirth, for sleepless nights, for fulfilling most desires, children and not so much, and the list goes on and on. Of course, we can say that no one forces parents to give birth to children and then suffer and suffer, raising them to their feet. But be that as it may, whatever the skeptics say about this, children always owe their mothers, and therefore, one evening by the fireplace, throwing a fluffy blanket over their mother's legs, it will not be superfluous to say: "Thank you, dear. Sorry. for everything … from childhood to the present day. " Even if there is no sin against the mother for the son or daughter.
Step 2
And if a child suddenly offended his mother with a rude word or disobeyed strict punishment, then the main element of forgiveness for her will be the child's awareness of his guilt, wrongness and non-repetition of such a mistake in the future. And sometimes the words: “Sorry, I won't be anymore!”, Uttered for the millionth time, are not worth a conscious silence, which, as a rule, will be followed by a long, frank conversation, revealing all the accumulated grievances and fears. And then a loving mother will understand how to make sure that her best child does not stumble next time. It is very important that this child does not skimp on sincere words, on gentle caresses, proving the inexhaustible closeness between the most dear people.
Step 3
In no case should you brush off the duty words of forgiveness and accumulate in yourself a heavy load of resentment against your mother. This will not solve the problem. After all, the realization that all this self-esteem, the perception of the world through the ego-prism, can come too late and cause even more pain than far-fetched grievances.
