There are often crises in human relationships. Someone is trying to overcome them, while others prefer to leave. If your boyfriend is in the second category, you need to learn how to keep love for two at once.
Instructions
Step 1
If there is a crisis in your relationship, and the guy decides that you need to break up, do not worry too much. More often than not, feelings can be returned. Of course, this will take a certain amount of time and your energy, but after overcoming this situation, your feelings will become even stronger and stronger. The first and most important rule is not to make scandals and quarrels. It is because of them that the relationship can end for good. Talk about your situation calmly.
Step 2
You have two ways to get your relationship back. The first is to always be with him, the second is to give a break, and then renew your feelings. Each path has both disadvantages and advantages. It is up to you to decide which one should be applied.
Step 3
If you decide to try the first option, explain to the young man that you are very accustomed to his company and at first it will be very difficult for you without him. Offer him friendship, communication without any hint of love. It is unlikely that your boyfriend will refuse you.
Step 4
Now you need to prove that he needs you exactly as a woman and as a loved one. Try to become irreplaceable for him: solve his little problems, give advice. It would be nice to come to his house to clean up or prepare food. Your meetings should become regular, but of course you shouldn't act like an abandoned girlfriend. Become his accomplice, ally, loyal partner. And after a while, the young man realizes that he needs you not only in this role.
Step 5
But this realization can take a long time. To speed up the process, make him jealous. For example, tell them that someone has offered you a serious relationship or even marriage. Ask him what is the best way for you to proceed. But only the guy should understand that there has not yet been any relationship between you and your fictional gentleman. Most likely, the young man will offer you to renew your love for fear of losing you.
Step 6
If you decide to go the second way, stop any contact with your ex-boyfriend for a while. You will need to wait 2-4 weeks. During this time, make yourself even more perfect. Take care of your appearance and character. Before the next meeting, the young man should be pleasantly surprised by the changes that have occurred in you.
Step 7
Arrange an unexpected meeting with him. To do this, he will have to visit the places he visits more often. Communication should be pleasant and fun, do not reproach him, do not cause anger and rage in him. On the contrary, tell me how many good things have happened in your life, and offer to meet again sometime. Well, during the second meeting, try to bring him to the idea that you need to start all over again. Perhaps the guy will not understand this right away. Therefore, do not be discouraged, but seek a second meeting.
