Everyone dreams of eternal love. They find only a few more, and even then only after many trials and errors. But when starting a new relationship, few people think that they can end. Sometimes it is very difficult to get rid of the person you love and with whom there are so many things. Difficult but necessary. If you can't seem to forget the man you broke up with, perhaps these tips will help you.
Instructions
Step 1
Stop believing that he will come back to you. It often happens that a woman is fully aware of the impossibility of such a development of events, but somewhere in the subconscious she still draws rainbow pictures from the series "What if suddenly? …" It is this "and if" that will never allow you to forget and start from scratch. Understand that even if he comes back to you, he will leave again, and this will continue indefinitely, and for all this you will pay only with your nerves.
Step 2
Stop trying to get it back. This advice is a logical continuation of the first one. The man left you of his own free will, so do not constantly try to return him - this way you will only humiliate yourself. The strength of a person is in the ability to let go of another, if he wants to leave. Make messages, turn to fortune-tellers and other radical and not-so-so ways.
Step 3
A man will return to you only if he realizes that he cannot live without you. But he must reach this thought on his own, without your help. If such a thought is not in his head, then there is nothing to wait.
Step 4
Stop clinging to the past. Constantly scrolling in your head the happy, romantic, cute moments of your relationship, you only poison your soul, and reduce the chances of a successful outcome of events. In the end, if you remember, then remember not only the good, but also the bad. Stop listening to songs that remind you of this person, stop artificially evoking memories of him. Stop being a masochist.
Step 5
Do not throw away or burn letters and things that remind you of the person - you will only be more worried. Better just put them in the farthest drawer and do not get them out of there under any pretext. Leave the most valuable things and gifts for you in plain sight, let them be perceived by you as museum exhibits.
Step 6
Change the environment and change yourself. Rearrange or renovate your apartment, buy new clothes, change your haircut and overall image - let the segment of your life that you spent with this person remain in the past and a new one will begin.
Step 7
Be sure to do something that piques your interest. Find a new hobby, start repairs … In general, take your time with something other than reminiscing about your old love. This is an excellent and proven remedy.
Step 8
And also look around. There are so many people around! There are so many good, smart and beautiful people among them! If you broke up, then you shouldn't have been together and it means that something much better awaits you ahead. Good luck to you!
