There are several things that you do when you are in a marriage that bring it closer to the end. And you may be surprised, but cheating is not on this list.
Do not slander
If you have problems with your partner, solve them with him. At most, seek advice from a very close friend. But do not slander constantly, even if you find yourself among unhappy women. This is how you become one of them. Whining is contagious and addictive.
Do not remember the bad
Try to work on automatically forgetting about everything that your husband has not done, what he has forgotten. What you don't remember will not harm you. If in your head you make a list of imaginary sins, a red item will appear at the end of this list - divorce.
Be empathetic
What does it mean? In order to have a calm and long-term relationship, accept the fact that women are more empathetic than men. This has been scientifically proven and means that it is much easier for you to understand why it behaves in a certain way than the other way around. You have a better chance of understanding it, so at least try it.
Beware of fists
Do you really want to live with the person you want to beat? So, either learn to control yourself, or find someone you don't want to hurt. Otherwise, he will find another.
Do not be silent
Forget the proverbial "What's the matter?" - "Not with anything". Never say "nothing" if "something" is the case. Don't leave problems to yourself. If something bothers you, then solve it. If you can't decide for yourself, share with your husband.
