There are no perfect people. And each has little things that can be annoying. And it depends on both partners how successful this union will be. There are some simple but must-have rules for men that will help strengthen a marriage.
What should a man avoid if he doesn't want the marriage to end? The reason for the breakdown of a marriage is not casual quarrels, but the daily little things that undermine even the strongest relationships.
1. Criticism.
Try to hold back when you feel like sarcastic. For this, not only your wife will thank you, but also many people, for example, colleagues, friends, or just casual acquaintances. Your wife does many things every day. Try to comment on those that she succeeded, naturally, from the positive side. It is worth learning to appreciate those who are trying for you. Words of love will do so much more for your good.
2. Total control.
Not everything that she does you have to control. The amount of salt in your soup or the quality of the floor you cleaned is not where your abilities apply. Give her the right to make mistakes, let her make decisions herself.
3. Disrespect.
Listening to her desires, her opinion and mood is your sacred duty. And you don't have to be delighted with everything. What's wrong with you? Look for compromises, negotiate, at least just listen to your wife. Look at your relationship from the outside: which of you is more likely to give in? Are you both happy when certain acquaintances come to visit you? Do you feel equally comfortable and calm when it comes to intimate relationships? Anyone who often and unrequitedly has to forget about their interests, sooner or later think about the fact that his life is devoid of happiness.
4. Lack of communication.
Yes, you have a lot to do. Work, household chores, car repair are very important activities. But always remember that your wife is more important. It doesn't take long to ask how her day went and, most importantly, to hear the answer. Show your wife that she is more important than the annual report and she will make you her king.
5. Dictionary of a teenager.
Something that once made your friends laugh may not please your wife. Learn to express yourself like a man, not like a teenager. Every woman wants to see a gentleman next to her. And yours too.
6. Excessive requirements.
There are so many women around who are better than your wife. Someone dances wonderfully, someone bakes cakes excellently. Not worth comparing. After all, your wife can start doing it too. And there is clearly someone to whom you will concede in something. Don't set a bad example for her. Praise her for what she really does.
7. Abandonment of household duties.
The majority of men help their wives with household chores. Only now there are few people who want to wash the toilet, it is better to water the flowers, in extreme cases, to peel the potatoes. Discuss with your wife what kind of help she really needs. You will be surprised to know how grateful she can be.
8. Lack of self-control.
Raising your voice, you lower your intelligence. And women love the smart. Show your temperament better in bed. But controlling your feelings is a truly masculine prerogative. You don't cry at a meeting with your boss, do you? And your wife is a closer and dear person to you. Why should she watch you lose face? By raising your tone, you lose your attractiveness in the eyes of your wife. A man is calmness, confidence and stability. Give her a real man and she won't even think that without you she could be better than with you.
